Good morning 🙂
So what’s going on with me? How are things in my little realm?
While for the most part things are good, my bills are paid, my belly full and my house is clean. I do have a lot of free time and spend it enjoying everything I love to do, walking, reading, writing, watching TV etc. I spend time each week with friends and family. Really I don’t sit around the apartment much so when I do I enjoy the time alone.
I’ve been on an online dating site for a while now and must have changed my profile a dozen times. I honestly cannot figure out how to word it without attracting the most absurdly wrong Mr. Right’s out there. But I think I nailed at this time or least I hope so. So here it is tell me what you think!
Hello there 🙂 After being on here for the bit I am coming to the opinion that maybe I am just not ready to start dating right now. Has it changed that much? That may change when I meet you so I am going to stay on here with the intention of meeting some new people and maybe just have someone to go out to dinner or just hang out with and just maybe form a long-lasting relationship. My intention is to find a simple, normal guy. I am NOT a barbie doll, I have moods and rough days just like you I am independent and support myself and like my life right now but would like to meet a good guy to spend it with. And I am getting pretty bored with the whole “My life is super great!” Or the other end of the spectrum “I am an unemployed, overweight alcoholic who wants an attractive, employed and decent woman” or “Wanna hook up?” BS on here. I don’t beat around the bush anymore, life is too short for that. And should be enjoyed without games. So if you want to chat and maybe get together I would love to hear from you…… 500,000 men online right now and not one of them smart enough to want a real woman ! But I hold out hope there is at least a few with some substance and not unrealistic expectations. So far that has not been my experience.
Pretty blunt I know but hopefully this will work as I don’t have to impress all the men online just that one honest, down to earth, normal guy. A man who like me works hard, gets grumpy and isn’t pretending that his life is perpetually happy because let’s face it you can keep that up for long. I realize in the beginning of a relationship being happy all the time is normal and the romance fades but really all I want is to be treated the same on day 1000 as I was on day one because that’s how I’m going to treat you. I don’t know maybe I’m too old for the shit but you never know. I’ve been dating a few guys I was decided on seeing one specific man and was very honest with him that that would be the only commitment I can make that but it wasn’t enough for him, he wanted more and I learned from my last relationship that I’m not rushing to be was someone who isn’t the same after a year so I’m just going to keep enjoying the company of different men and eventually, hopefully I will find one of a like mind. Anyway that’s about all this new right now, not a very exciting life as it 🙂