The Mundane: Good morning. For some reason I’m so looking forward to tomorrow and being the first day of spring. Just the arrival of spring has always been enough to lift my spirits and renew my being as a whole. Add to that the fact that after three months I finally got the last of my things out of my exes place. I have no idea why the process had to take so long but that’s his issue, not mine.
I’m gonna a really busy today as I have some shopping and and laundry to do and then I’m having guests for dinner so anyone who knows me knows I’ll be prepping and cooking for hours. Going to make an apple pie for dessert I think, I do miss baking. May as well bake some chocolate chip cookies while I’m at it.
I already have my lesson done for the day and am almost done the first course. That should be completed by Wednesday and then I’ll find out what the next recommended course will be.
And now the Racy: As usual I’ve been thinking too much and came to a conclusion about committed relationships and sex. I recently joined an online dating site and am amused at the number of times I am asked if I’m good in bed. First of all I don’t believe in sex outside of a committed relationship. Whether you’re dating, married or common law, gay or straight if you are not loving and giving in the bedroom you are really need to give your head a shake. Honestly the only answer I have when I’m asked if I’m good in bed is Are you? Anyone with any sense of the situation at all knows that to be good in bed you both have to be good in bed. I’ve always enjoyed good sex, and a loving intimate relationship with my partners. Unfortunately most of them have been selfish and I’m not sure why they want me to be enthusiastic about an activity that I’m merely a means to an end. That’s what you have a right hand for boys. I like to be an active participant, giving and receiving and taking time to explore all the possibilities at hand. That includes foreplay, the act or acts themselves and after play. Let’s face it no woman is impressed when she gets a peck and you roll over and say good night. So gentlemen have a think about whether you are worth sleeping with. Because I know I am. I do have one ex partner whom I’d totally clicked in the bedroom with he is the only one that I would ever consider sleeping with again. I do find the quality over quantity is paramount in that room of the house. An it’s an excellent place for a little experimentation, you never know what you’ll like until you try it. And a good sex life is important to any relationship. I’ve never in my life denied sex because I was pissed off at him and I don’t understand women that do. Why deny yourself when that’s an opportunity for it to be the way you want it for once. They are always more enthusiastic when they have to be . Anyway just some food for thought, my own opinion on a popular subject.